And I can no longer stand for the Mommy woes.  I can only tell you that if you are one, make the most of it.  Rest when you can. Lift up other Mamas when you can.  Invest in your children. Take breaks when you need to.  But STOP COMPLAINING about them and your role.  There is power in the who they are now and the who they will become.  And you have a hand in that.